How to become more Confident

Just like any other muscle in your body, your mind strength level can be improved overtime when you make use of these following points. These are my top 5 rules for gaining instant confidence.

1. GROOMING AND DRESSING

You got to understand that there are two kinds of people Clubs. First is kind of people who don't really judge you immediately but that's only about half the human population.

Most human being are immediate to judge based on external appearance. You know how they tell you that you shouldn't judge book by its cover, well to be honest a lot of human being do judge you by your cover and that is why you care about dressing smart.

You gotta care about grooming yourself looking neat and tidy. You even got to care about body odour like mouth odour or how you smell. 

If you take all these points I believe that you cover that whole external appearance game and this is when we can move on to the internal appearance.

2. POSITIVITY and HAPPINESS 

"As much as confidence is about how you look on outside, confidence and its core is how you feel about yourself on the inside"

The moment you bring happiness and positivity into a conversation it just made person you are talking to get into some kind of comfort zone. You do the job of becoming becoming happy charming, little more positive and you will automatically become lot more Confident. 

3. BODY LANGUAGE

If you are an internally confident but sometimes the wrong body language can give out wrong signals. Here are my top rules for body language:-

i). No Slouching

Don't slouch and walk around and don't slouch and talk to person. Keep your back erect, straight and convey confidence.

ii). No close body language

Don't fidget with your fingers. Never ever fold your arms and talk to others. It conveys you are not interested in conversation .

iii). Eye Conversation

While in conversation look into the eyes of person you are talking to. Don't  look here and there or around .

iv). Face People

Don't angle body away from the person you are in conversation with, so the moment you looking down, it tells the person that OK this person isn't comfortable talking to me so i should back off.

Never make people back off . Keep an open body language.

4. SUBTRACT COMPARISON AND ADD CURIOSITY

The biggest reason people feel under confident is because they constantly in a state of comparison. They thinking "Oh my God what if he or she think of me","how am i looking", etc.
At every stage of conversation and life in general you gotta perceive yourself as a KING or QUEEN.
You are confident, you are perfect, you are no less than anyone else you talk to.
Keep self perception active in your head. Be curious about what other say be interested in conversation. If they express their opinion on a topic feel free to express your own opinion on same.

LIFE HACK: If you ever stuck in conversation just try asking other person Questions about what they are talking about .

5. PRACTICE

Just like other life skills, confidence is one of those things that you can build overtime. Go and talk .

Initiate conversation. Every one is pretty much the same, we all are slightly under confident. But even though lack off confidence is everywhere around you.
You should be that person that bring confidence into every single conversation, into every single person's life.

Where ever you go always carry POSITIVE VIBES, LAUGHTER, SMILES and CONFIDENCE.